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  1. 1

    melissa

    I have no words…………………… :(

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      Gluten Dude

      I do…but this is a family site.

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  2. 2

    Tiera

    I commented on the article when I saw it a couple of days ago because I too read the comment section even though I knew I shouldn’t! :/

    This would have absolutely crushed my 10 year old. It would take a very, very long time for him to overcome that humiliation.

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    Sybil Nassau

    There really are no words. Every single restaurant in our community allows someone with a medical issue to bring in their own food. I have a friend with a severe salt issue- absolutely none- and brings her own if there is not a salad or a shrimp cocktail on the menu. Would they insist a diabetic eat a hunk of chocolate cake? Bad publicity ruins more businesses than the food or the product. This place will reap what they sow!

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    Addie Mae Weiss

    After I had a back-and-forth facebook session on July 21st between someone defending Sheilds tavern and telling me I wasn’t there so I shouldn’t share inflammatory stories another friend who lives in Virginia posted this response, but I can’t find the quote myself. Maybe the original poster had to take their response down since people can be so ugly and attack:

    This came from the comments section of the article: https://pilotonline.com/news/local/colonial-williamsburg-forced-boy-with-gluten-allergy-to-eat-outside/article_89613ac2-ee94-5858-b06a-4a0b39bcbcd2.html

    This is from the comment section of the article. This info would have been good to have in the article as you can see that the parents pulled this food out because they didn’t feel comfortable with the gluten free option at Shields Tavern.
    “I was there that night. The parents DID call ahead and the Tavern DID know ahead of time. They prepared a “gluten free” meal but after the parents asked about cross contamination, they didn’t feel comfortable with the answers. They carry food with them just in case. Cross contamination is a common mistake people make when it comes to preparing food for people with Celiacs disease.

    This is a real good reason that I am very impatient with the current gluten free fad. And it IS a fad. It is baseless and not based on any kind of science. There are people who actually have gluten allergies and it is a serious thing. Celiacs disease is a RARE condition and it is a very difficult thing to manage. I had a student who had it and cross contamination was a REAL issue. He ALWAYS carried good with him just in case. I took him on field trips and we called ahead just like this family did, and we still had to use his food, because the parents didn’t want to chance it. The reserve food is a medical necessity just like having insulin is for a diabetic. People don’t take celiacs disease seriously now because of the gluten free fad where people who have no actual allergy are requesting it.

    See the above comments as proof of this. You automatically assumed that the family was trying to gouge CW for money and that the family was acting entitled.”

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      Gluten Dude

      I’ve always said…the GF Fad has totally hurt the community. I don’t need 33 kinds of bread. I need to be kept safe.

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    Jessica

    I would even expect the school to stand up for him and everyone walk out. If the whole class isn’t allowed to eat there then the whole class should leave.

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    Tess

    This makes me so sad! My daughter is also 11 and has had her share of sitting out because of food. After going hungry at a baseball game, I asked our GI doc for a note for my child to carry. She wrote one for us on the department letterhead. It says:
    “Gluten Free Diet Requirement
    Mary requires a gluten free diet. Please allow her to bring her own food to avoid exacerbation of her medical condition.
    Please call my office with any questions or concerns. ”
    This has helped us out at a few places. I carry it in my wallet at all times.
    Not sure if it would have helped in the Williamsburg situation, just thought I’d share. Sometimes people need to see it in writing.

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    1. 6.1

      Jessica

      I like that medical letter idea! I might ask our doctor to write one next time…

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      Jennifer

      I have a medic alert bracelet. It has allowed me to get food into places that normally do not allow in food (note, this is usually snacks). I just tell people I have severe food allergies. Of course, this has only been challenged once and only lightly. I’ve never tried to get my own food into, say, a professional sports game. I have no idea if the bracelet would work there.

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    Candace

    Hey, the link to the article didn’t work. You need to get rid of the quotation mark at the end of it for it to work. Here is the link without it… And this is so sad… https://pilotonline.com/news/local/colonial-williamsburg-forced-boy-with-gluten-allergy-to-eat-outside/article_89613ac2-ee94-5858-b06a-4a0b39bcbcd2.html

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      Gluten Dude

      Yeah…I noticed that too. Thanks!!

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  8. 8

    Kathy

    As a mom of an 11 year old celiac son this breaks my heart on so many levels. Being a tween is hard enough but having gluten challenges adds a whole other dimension. My son just went to DC and VA last month on a school trip and he could not have survived without my husband being there to help advocate for him and bringing his own food. They ate at food courts and buffet restaurants the entire time and he pretty much had to eat what he brought. It’s not fair that kids should have to miss out on fun and school field trips due to their diet restrictions. I guarantee my son and others would happily opt out of gluten restrictions if they could.

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    Lisa

    Yeah, I cried. This poor boy.

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    Janet Rosenbaum

    I had this experience at a synagogue event: no one answered my emails asking what was being served, so I paid for a meal, got there and learned that I couldn’t eat any of it, allowed someone who hadn’t paid eat in my place, then got yelled at for doing that, and so to demonstrate that I wasn’t cheating the system, I stood on the street outside the building while everyone else ate, making phone calls to pass the time. I never got to eat. Also when I gave birth, the synagogue tried to dissuade me from having a meal signup because no one can cook gluten-free food.

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    Monica I

    Sadly for our health department – you cannot bring in outside food or drink. Period. Sooooo, they might have been protecting their license. Sad, but true. Annoying as hell.

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      Cali Celiac

      It was noted that they allowed food for toddlers, so that would not seem to be the issue here. Regardless of company policy the manager had the authority to “do the right thing” and chose not to. Clearly, he/she is a heartless asshole deserving of shame and humiliation. Had he allowed the child to eat his own food we wouldn’t be reading and commenting on it right now. EPIC FAIL!

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    RevAllyson

    I have a similar issue… I am actually allergic to some strains of wheat. It manifests as hives, then lesions on my neck, then my mouth swells, my throat closes, and I can go into anaphalactic shock. I carry an EpiPen because of this life threatening allergy. I can’t eat at many places, because they do not pay attention to cross contamination. I would not wish this allergy or celiac on *anyone*… it sucks. But all places need to be aware of allergens, and be honest about their ability to cater to those with the allergies.

    I will happily have a drink and nothing else while friends eat at a place. I’m fine with it. I’ll grab something for myself at a trusted place or home later. But if you say you can accommodate me when I call in advance, don’t lie to me, and don’t give me the server who thinks I’m indulging a fad and gives me foods that can kill me because of it. :(

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  13. 13

    Laura

    To the person who wrote; “How about we realize that this whole gluten allergy thing is made up nonsense that just came about recently…let’s grow up people.” ALL disease is IMAGINED and NOT REAL according to Mary Baker Eddy’s writings. She believed it was all in ones mind. Eddy died of pneumonia on the evening of December 3, 1910.

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    1. 13.1

      CR

      I once had a person tell me that autoimmune diseases are caused by self-hatred. I wanted to tell her if they are caused by hatred it is by hatred of idiots!

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  14. 14

    Jmom

    Same thing happened to my then ten year old at colonial cafe, the waitress said he couldn’t join the rest of us at the table Bc he can’t bring outside food. He and my husband are on the ground outside the restaurant until we finished our unpleasant meal where I immediately posted what transpired on yelp. Hope the establishment makes it clear how inhuman this is.

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  15. 15

    Cheryl

    This is real folks, not some dietary fad! It is expensive to have the substitute breads just to eat a regular meal. Bread and pasta are part of almost any meal in the American diet. Spaghetti, you can’t even have the sauce because they use pasta water to thicken it. So, salad it is. Burgers, you get meat and veggies and mustard and ketchup. No fries though, they cook the onion and nuggets together. I love Gyros, sorry, but it is meatloaf on a spit, bread crumbs included. Hot dogs? Sandwiches of any kind, meat and cheese and veggies on a….? And pizza! Many places dont let you bring your own breads. No matter how severe the gluten reaction is, NO CHEATING IS TOLERABLE!

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    Janet Monk

    This is just heart breaking!!! Besides the fact that this was a child, do restaurants have so much business that they think there is no reason why they should try to cater to food allergies? Good greif people have a heart!

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    Susan

    I know that I am in the minority here. But I feel like this is the end result of the P.F. Changs lawsuit failing to support the rights of people who need specific diets in order to live. Once they are allowed to charge us unreasonable amounts, it is a small step toward treating us like animals that have to go outside in the rain to eat alone. It is small steps to treating humans like dogs because they have an incurable disease that is deadly if the person fails to follow the only prescribed treatment of 100% gluten free diet.

    They are clearly in violation of the Americans with Disabilities Act. There is no excuse! NONE!

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      Jim

      I’m amazed you’re the only one that’s mentioned the Americans with Disabilities Act. Everyone needs to understand that people with Celiac Disease are protected under the Americans with Disabilities Act. Because of this that restaurant is going to get killed in that lawsuit and rightfully so.

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    Karen

    Haha. This is the world we live in! My daughter just came back from a student leadership camp where most nights she went to bed hungry because this kitchen didn’t offer gluten free. When I talked to the director, she said “well this is a disease she will have for the rest of her life and at least she is gaining skills on how to deal with this as an adult when she can’t find food. She will become resourceful.”. Awesome.

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    LindaBo

    The only word that comes to mind is DISGUSTING!

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    LS

    Wouldn’t this be in violation of the Americans with Disabilities act? The child clearly has one in this case.

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    Sharone

    What the ___? The gluten free diet is all us celiacs have right now, it is a medically necessary intervention, and it is our only “medicine”. So they are denying this child his medicine. If they don’t allow outside food there, they wouldn’t allow toddlers to eat outside food either! Hope they win the lawsuit.

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    g

    You can always pick out the trump supporters-they are the ones that insult the kid and his family. Yeah, I went there, and make no apologies for it.

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    1. 22.1

      Cali Celiac

      Celiac disease knows no party affiliation or political leaning, it’s completely bipartisan, as this forum usually is. Please keep the partisan politics out of our disease and save those comments for a more appropriate forum. Have a grand day!

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  23. 23

    D

    You can always tell the haters, they throw reason out the window and make irrational connections between actions and people they hate, just to just to disparage someone their target. Yeah, I went there, and make no apologies for it.

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      Cali Celiac

      Celiac disease knows no party affiliation or political leaning, it’s completely bipartisan, as this forum usually is. Please keep the partisan politics out of our disease and save those comments for a more appropriate forum. Have a grand day!

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    Bob

    It’ll be interesting to see this wind through the courts. Hopefully Colonial Williamsburg will see the light, settle, and adopt a rational policy for their restaurants. No one should have to go through what this child endured.

    If true, the news that the restaurant and parents communicated beforehand, that a GF meal was prepared, and that the parent felt the food unsafe is both interesting and instructive. Restaurants have to understand that, because any adverse outcome falls on the customer, only the customer can make the risk decision of whether or not to eat the food the restaurant prepares. If a court does make a decision in this case, I sincerely hope that is a part of their decision.

    Finally, with issues like this the celiac community needs to stand together. Injecting partisan politics will only drive the community apart and make it less effective in all it needs to accomplish. Please people, leave your political preferences at home. We all have celiac, and that is what unites us.

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    Terry Wood

    Thanks for writing an article on this Gluten Dude! We need to stand with this young man and his family. The ADA attempts to make reasonable accommodations for the handicapped. Clearly it wouldn’t have killed Colonial WIlliamsburg (CW) to let this young man stay and eat his safe food. What many of those posting comments in the newspaper website miss is this wasn’t just a meal. It was part of the educational experience they offer at CW. They presented a program during the meal. That’s what the young man missed. CW takes Federal Funds (upwards of 3.5 million) and I suspect they’ll find that the ADA applies here.

    I also hope this helps other with NCGS. It’s clear that the ADA applies to celiac disease. I hope it’s found that NCGS is just as disabling as CD and those who have are protected by the ADA.

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    Jen

    I’m so annoyed … what that young man went through is pure BS. Shame on that establishment for being so disrespectful, callous and downright rude.

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    Jes

    I had to stop reading the comments posted to that article. They were making my blood boil….

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    Sarah

    My sister and I have Celiac and were going to meet a bunch of my classmates at CiCi’s pizza, where we obv couldn’t eat. So we went and got some gf pizza and were going to just sit and hang with them while they ate there. The manager wouldn’t let us eat our gf pizza inside. He made us leave and we ate in her car.

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    Galwayfan

    This might interest you. I cared enough to follow the case. I haven’t heard anyone mention it since the initial outrage. Here’s the outcome

    https://www.leagle.com/decision/infdco20180605d28

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      Peggy

      What? They ruled in favor of the tavern? Did I read that correctly?

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